How to manifest someone step-by-step with free tools to take you through the process and ensure it actually works.
I know that you can manifest a relationship because I tried it and it worked.
How to Manifest Love
This is a 10-page workbook that shows you how to manifest step by step. It focuses on self-love and happiness which are essential parts of the manifestation process. Once you have completed the sections on self-love, and you learn to love yourself more, only then does the manifestation process start. You cannot expect someone to love you if you don’t love yourself which is why the workbook starts with the inner work you need to do in order to be more positive and to love yourself.
This is a 39-page manifestation journal that focuses on the manifestation process and the steps you need to take to manifest love. It includes a 30-day daily journal with the steps you need to take each day to manifest a relationship.
Can you manifest love? Yes, manifesting love is totally possible according to the Law of Attraction Relationships. According to The Secret, by Rhonda Byrne, we create our own lives and every wish we want to create will manifest in our lives. Therefore, our wishes, thoughts, and feelings about ourselves and our relationships are very important because they will manifest.
How to Manifest Someone to Fall in Love with You
How to manifest someone to love you? These are the things you need to do to manifest love. Our free printable manifesting journal will take you through each of the stages step-by-step. It includes journaling questions and exercises to guide you through the process.
- Firstly, treat yourself with love and respect. Make feeling good a priority.
- Create your own happiness. Don’t rely on anyone else to create your happiness. Make a list of the things that make you happy and do at least one of them every single day. Focus on being happy and positive. This is one of the most important steps of the process.
- Feel love in your daily life.
- Define your perfect partner. Get clear about what you want your partner to be like.
- Visualize your perfect partner in your life.
- Make sure that your thoughts, words, actions, and surroundings convey your desire to attract a relationship
- Take action.
Through meditation, positive affirmations, visualization, self-love, and positive energy you can manifest a relationship that will last.
Treat yourself with love and respect.
“The secret of attraction is to love yourself.” Deepak Chopra
Make feeling good a priority. James Ray asks an interesting question in The Secret. Do you treat yourself the way you want other people to treat you? You must treat yourself with love and respect and make feeling good a priority. See our self-love journal.
How can you expect anyone to enjoy your company if you don’t enjoy your own company? You have to fill yourself up with love and happiness. One of the ways to do this is via positive affirmations. See manifestation affirmations and how to write affirmations.
When you love yourself, you feel good and full of energy. You attract people to you. When you don’t love yourself, then you attract people who don’t love you.
Think about all your good qualities and features. As you focus on those positive things, the law of attraction will show you even more positive qualities and features. You attract what you think about.
Use the following printable to list your good qualities and features. Read these positive affirmations daily and again before you go on a date. You can make positive affirmation cards and carry them around with you as well.
It is very important that you feel worthy of love. With or without a relationship, you must feel worthy. You must be happy, fulfilled, and purposeful. This way, you will enjoy a relationship when it manifests but you won’t be needy and reliant on one. Now is a great time to reach your other goals in life as well. See our goal planner to set goals in all areas of your life.
Create your own happiness
Don’t rely on anyone else to create your happiness. You are the only person who can and should create your happiness. Others can share in your happiness but you need to create it. When you are happy and fulfilled from within, you will always feel joy and fulfillment and it will not be dependent on anyone else.
List all the things that make you happy. Schedule one of those things each day for the next 30 days.
Avoid all the things that make you feel sad or depressed. This can include things such as Facebook which can be depressing for some because people like to present their lives in a distorted way to make their lives appear perfect and reading these posts can be depressing. You might want to avoid people who put you down or take advantage of you.
Feel love in your daily life
Feel love in your daily life. Love everything and anything you can. Focus on the things and the people that you love and you will feel that love and joy come back to you.
In this section, you will list all the things and people that you love. You will write positive manifestation affirmations that you are encouraged to read daily. You will also create a gratitude list or write to see how many things you have that you are grateful for and to focus on the good things in your life. You can turn this list into gratitude affirmations.
Act AS IF you already love and are loved. You can only be truly loved and valued by someone else when you love and value yourself. When you start to act as if love is inevitable then the limiting beliefs and behaviors that held you back in the past will dissolve and they will stop preventing you from finding love. When you feel loved and confident you will attract someone who is right for you. You won’t be tempted to compromise and lower your expectations and therefore attract someone who is not right for you. Instead, you will attract your perfect match.
Define your perfect partner
Get clear about what you want your partner to be like. Make a detailed list of all of his/her qualities.
Visualize your perfect partner in your life
Before you start visualization, you need to clear your mind of all thoughts. Try deep breathing or a short meditation session before you start. When you are ready to start manifesting through visualization, you need to hold an image of the desired outcome in your mind in as much detail as possible. Think of every detail possible and imagine it in your mind. Then, ask the Universe to deliver.
Every day, sit somewhere quiet and visualize yourself with your perfect partner. Feel what it will feel like and visualize yourself in love and being loved.
Visualization is a powerful tool for manifesting love. Go somewhere quiet and comfortable and relax. You can either sit up or lie down, whatever is more comfortable for you. Put some relaxing music on in the background if it helps you relax. Take a few deep breaths in through your nose and out through your mouth. Try to make each one deeper than the previous one. If thoughts enter your mind, acknowledge them but put your focus back on your breathing. Think about all the people you love and feel the love you have for them. This will help you visualize love and put you in the right frame of mind. Now, visualize yourself loving someone. Visualize each detail. Imagine how they look, how they touch you, how you feel, visualize all details of your dream partner and imagine how you will feel when you are united.
A vision board or manifestation board is helpful for those who have trouble visualizing in their mind. When you use a vision board you can use images or photos so you don’t have to imagine them in your mind. Use photos you have from when you were in a loving relationship or photos from the internet that make you feel love and romance.
Make sure that your thoughts, words, actions, and surroundings convey your desire to attract a relationship
Our thoughts lead to the words we speak, the feelings we feel, and the actions we take. Sometimes we are not even aware of our thoughts but we can understand them by looking at our actions. In this case, you can deliberately choose to change your actions so that you can focus your thoughts on what you want. It is important to make sure that your actions don’t contradict your thoughts or desires. For example, in The Secret, there is an example given by Mike Dooley about a woman who wanted a relationship but her actions showed otherwise. She would park her car in the middle of her garage not leaving space for her perfect partner’s car. She also had no space in her closet for his clothes and she was sleeping in the middle of her bed. Her actions were saying to the Universe that she didn’t believe her perfect partner was on his way. She deliberately changed her actions. She parked her car on one side of her garage, slept on one side of her bed, and freed up space in her closet. After doing all these things, her perfect partner arrived and they are now happily married.
Think about what you have asked for and make sure that your actions reflect what you desire to receive. Act as if you are receiving it. Do exactly what you would do if you were receiving it today and take actions in your life to reflect this. This will send out powerful signals of expectation to the Universe.
Make sure that your limiting beliefs don’t jeopardize your success. Many people allow negative self-talk to tell them things such as “they will be hurt in a relationship”, “I’ll never find someone who I like or who likes me”, “I can’t trust anyone”. These limiting beliefs cause you to be negative and hesitant, suspicious and that is then the type of person you will attract. Let go of all negative self-talk and replace it with positive affirmations. Put positive affirmation cards all over your home. See manifestation affirmations and how to write affirmations.
Take Action – Get out there and meet people
Manifestation isn’t magic. You cannot do all the things above and then never leave your home hoping your soul mate will still find you. You need to get out there and create opportunities to meet people.
Make a list of all the things you can do to meet people. Use our free checklist template. Here are some examples of things you can do:
- If you have specific hobbies then sign up for classes or groups.
- If you enjoy running then join a running group.
- Sign up for dating sites.
- Ask your friends to introduce you to people they know.
Signing up for activities you enjoy or exercise classes has added benefits. Even if you don’t meet anyone there you will gain many additional benefits.
The idea is to connect with people and have fun. Don’t compromise on things that are very important to you. Have patience. It is better to wait a little longer and find someone who is right for you can settle for less because you are anxious to be in a relationship.
One of the ways that manifestation works is that it provides opportunities that you never saw before. Have you ever decided to buy a car and then suddenly you notice how many of those cars you see around you? These cars were there before but you suddenly started to focus on them and now you see them. Once you start trying to manifest a relationship you will suddenly start meeting more people and maybe even considering people that you knew before but never considered dating. Sometimes you might not have the courage to initiate contact or conversation. Many people don’t have the courage to take action when the opportunity strikes. One of the ways to get the courage you need is to use Mel Robbins 5 Second Rule. When opportunity strikes, and it will when you are manifesting, countdown from 5, and when you reach 1 take action.
Stop your negative thoughts and limiting beliefs
Do you ever have thoughts that you are doomed to be alone forever? This negative thinking will stop you from finding a partner. As Henry Ford said, “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t – you’re right”. If you are stuck in this negative thought pattern then you will not find a relationship easily. You won’t be as motivated to look for one and when you do this negative thought pattern will not attract the kind of partner you are looking for or it will jeopardize the relationship. So, the first thing you need to do is to change your attitude. One of the best ways to do this is through positive affirmations such as love affirmations (see how to write affirmations). You can also use our limiting beliefs worksheet to identify your limiting beliefs and turn them into empowering thoughts.
Releasing negativity is important for life in general, but especially important when it comes to manifesting true love. You want to radiate the most positive energy you can. This will attract that special person and your unspoken message will be heard by them.
How to Manifest a Relationship
Can you manifest a relationship? Yes. Manifesting a relationship can be done with someone you already know or someone you have yet to meet.
How to Manifest a Relationship with a Specific Person
Can you manifest a specific person? Yes, manifesting a relationship with a specific person is also totally possible since the law of attraction is a universal law that can be used by anyone on any target.
Manifesting a specific person is easier in some ways than manifesting a relationship with someone you don’t know. One of the ways to manifest is via visualization and it is often easier to visualize yourself with someone specific than with someone you have not yet met.
The manifestation workbook below will show you how to manifest a specific person step-by-step.
The reason I know this works is that I tried it myself. I followed each of these steps and the person I tried to manifest called me the next morning. I hadn’t spoken to him or seen him for months. I probably wouldn’t have believed it if it didn’t happen to me personally.
How to Manifest a Relationship with Someone You Will Meet in the Future
The workbook below will show you how to manifest a person you have not met. It takes you through each step with journalling and activities.
How to Manifest Someone to Like You
How do you manifest someone to like you? Before you manifest someone to like you, you have to like yourself. Do you like yourself? Do you enjoy spending time with yourself? The following manifestation journal will take you through each step required to manifest someone to like you. It should be noted that it is the same process to manifest someone to like you or to be totally obsessed with you. Visualize what you want and feel what it will feel like. You can decide how strong his/her feelings will be.
How to Manifest Someone to Think About You / How to Manifest a Person to Talk to You
When I first started studying the law of attraction, I decided to put it to a test. I had already read a few books on the topic and I had started taking the law of attraction certificate course but I wasn’t totally convinced yet so I decided to test it.
During my usual Saturday morning jog, I spotted someone who looked really cute. I decided to manifest him to talk to me. I had no idea who he was and if he was single but all I wanted was for him to talk to me to see if the law works. I had been running on the same running route for nearly 10 years practically every Saturday morning and usually during the week as well. In all that time, I had never seen him and nobody had ever spoken to me except the occasional good morning.
I asked the Universe to make him talk to me. I then visualized him coming up to talk to me. I went into as much detail as I could. I thought about what he would say and how I would respond. I thought about how he would look up close and how he would smell. I carried on running for another 30 minutes and he was nowhere in sight. Then, suddenly, I saw him. I carried on running for another 15 minutes or so and he was running nearby. He then came up to me and said exactly what he said in my visualization. I usually only think of witty things to say when it is too late, but I had already planned the conversation so I had my response ready. I acted naturally with him but I was seriously in shock. I never thought it would work so quickly and effectively. I have been a true believer ever since then and have manifested many things that I wanted. Seriously, I am not trying to sell you anything. I had been a bit skeptical in the past since anyone who claimed that the law of attraction works was trying to sell me something which automatically made me a little skeptical. Please believe me. It really works!
How to Manifest a Boyfriend
The manifestation journal above will take you through each step required to manifest a boyfriend. Manifesting a husband will be done with the same process as above. When you manifest, you can ask for whatever you want from the Universe. It can be a boyfriend or a husband. The process is exactly the same.
How to Manifest Someone After a Breakup
To manifest the person with whom you broke up:
Follow the same process described above but when you visualize the person, visualize your ex specifically. Instead of manifesting a relationship, you will manifest a specific person. I know that this works because I tried it and it worked for me. I believe that it only works when the relationship is meant to be. Sometimes the Universe understands that something isn’t right for you but you only see it at a later stage. If you think that you and your ex are meant to be together then try this method.
To manifest a new relationship:
Before you manifest a new relationship after a breakup it is important to give yourself time to heal (See Getting Over a Breakup).
You cannot manifest someone until you have let go of the past. This means that when you think of an ex, you don’t feel hurt or angry anymore. You have stopped rehashing old arguments or things that your ex did that made you angry. You understand that the relationship was not meant to be and you stop blaming them or yourself for the breakup. Until this happens, you are not ready to manifest a new relationship. If you are not ready, then give yourself time to heal and process everything before you manifest love again. Don’t rush into a new relationship right after getting out of one or during the breakup. Even if you successfully manifest a relationship when you are not ready then it will only be a rebound relationship that probably won’t last long because you are bringing all your baggage along with you.
Taking time to heal after a breakup will allow you to work through things and enter into a new relationship more complete and ready. We can always learn something from a breakup so take your past relationships and use them as lessons to help you get closer to meeting your soulmate or twin flame (see soulmate vs twin flame).
How do you know when you are ready to manifest someone after a breakup? When you have spent time on healing and when you are perfectly happy being alone. You don’t feel a sense of urgency or desperation to enter into a new relationship. You want to be in a relationship, but you feel patient and relaxed.
How to Know if Someone is Manifesting You
There is no way to know for sure if someone is manifesting you until it happens. The best thing that you can do is pay attention to the signs and see what happens.
1) Physical Manifestations- One of the most common ways to know someone is manifesting you is through physical manifestations. These could be hearing an unusual noise that no one else seems to hear or feeling like someone is watching you when there’s no one there.
2) Mental Manifestations- Another way to tell if someone is manifesting your thoughts and feelings for you might be through mental manifestations. You may find yourself thinking about him more often or him coming into your mind more often than normal.